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PostPosted: Fri Apr 17, 2009 9:23 pm 
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I'm at st lukes hospice about to spend my fifth night on the floor next to my wife's bed. After over a year of fighting secondary brest cancer she is at the end, she was 35 three weeks ago. I feel like a zombie at the moment and although I knew this was coming, I'm struggling now.

God this is fucking horrible, heartbreaking, sickening pain. Arrghhhhh

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Oh Ben I'm so sorry for you all. I wish I could say something to make it better. Just be there for her, talk to her, laugh with her and make some more memories to hold onto. Thinking of you. XXXX


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i know EXACTLY how you feel,i went through it with my Dad i am so sorry for you Ben and your wife,my heart goes out to you.

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Thinking of you both ben xxxxx


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me and my dad cared for my mum until we couldn't do it anymore. no sleep for three weeks.

and she went to a hospice where they were lovely.

i feel for you i really do xx

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Bless you both ben, bless you both.

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I'm so sorry, Ben. I wish I could say something to help. Thinking of you both. Aurora x

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Sorry to hear that Ben, really sorry for you, it puts all things into perspective, take care mate.

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Ben, I'm thinking of you both. Don't be afraid. Hospice folk are so kind. Alan x

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It's an exhausting, heart rending and helpless place to be. Nothing anyone can say is adequate. Love to you both x

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Just Too Young. So sorry Ben. Thinking of you both. And sorry for being late with this post.

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So sorry to hear that Ben, thoughts are with you pal.
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my thoughts are with you - as Jan said nothing any of us can say is adequate...love Kate


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No words can ease such pain.
I am truly sorry.


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