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Author:  Alan Noir [ Fri May 08, 2009 10:43 pm ]
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She's really lovely, but I'm not in love with her. It's for her own good more than mine really.

Author:  sunflower [ Fri May 08, 2009 10:47 pm ]
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so she's in love with you then?

tricky.

Author:  Alan Noir [ Fri May 08, 2009 10:54 pm ]
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Yeah probably. We dont even communicate all that well.


Christ, I'm really spilling my guts here, all I wanted to do was let off a bit of steam last night.

Author:  co80521 [ Fri May 08, 2009 10:57 pm ]
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Does she think you're also in love with her also?

On a lighter note i just noticed you joined on my birthday last year :D

Author:  sunflower [ Fri May 08, 2009 10:59 pm ]
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well dont say anythin yer dont want to on here. its up to you.

all i'd say is that it's not good to lead someone on if yer know it's never goin to be right for you. it'll be hard for the other person in the short term, but it's the kindest thing in the long term.

that'll be 50quid, please :wink:

Author:  Alan Noir [ Fri May 08, 2009 11:08 pm ]
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Aye, I know it has to be done. It's just hard to find the strength to do something which is pretty much going to crush her. It's for her own good, but it's very hard.

Author:  co80521 [ Fri May 08, 2009 11:13 pm ]
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You know it's gonna be hard and hurt her but the fact that you feel bad about that fact goes to show you're a good bloke :)

Author:  sunflower [ Fri May 08, 2009 11:17 pm ]
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problem is, i think (and im talkin in general terms here), caring people often don't end relationships because they can't bear to hurt the other person and/or can't cope with the guilt etc. but at the end of the day, yer have to be true to yourself and to them.

my god its all gettin a bit deep innit? :shock:

Author:  co80521 [ Fri May 08, 2009 11:19 pm ]
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Yep it is. But as far as my experiance goes it's all true.

Funniest thing is, the relationship i'm in now was never meant to be one. But it's the best i've ever had. And i'm happier in it than i ever have been before :D

Author:  Alan Noir [ Fri May 08, 2009 11:27 pm ]
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I intended this as a general relationship bother thread. Don't want to be a misery-hog:P

Author:  sunflower [ Fri May 08, 2009 11:29 pm ]
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men are shite. end of :wink: :*:

Author:  co80521 [ Fri May 08, 2009 11:29 pm ]
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You're not being. If i went into my previous relationships i could have a whole series of Jeramy Karl to myself! Seriously :shock:

Author:  Dave [ Fri May 08, 2009 11:34 pm ]
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co80521 wrote:
You're not being. If i went into my previous relationships i could have a whole series of Jeramy Karl to myself! Seriously :shock:


Jeramy Karl???.........is he the German Jeremy Kyle?? :eh?

BTW.......you're doing a sterling job Alan. The ladies are in their elements. Heed their advice wisely young padawan!

Author:  Alan Noir [ Fri May 08, 2009 11:43 pm ]
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Right I'm off to bed, got a plane to catch tomorrow. I'll have a few days in London with friends next weekend whatever way this turns out, so that's something to look forward to at least. Thanks for all the advice guys. I know it's the right thing to do, I feel it in my gut, and not a single person who knows the issue has said anything different. Wish me luck. :(

Author:  co80521 [ Fri May 08, 2009 11:46 pm ]
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Good luck!!! My fingers are crossed for you and enjoy London :)

Sophie x

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