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PostPosted: Thu May 14, 2009 4:19 pm 
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i delete mine so i don't have to look, and deny all knowledge.


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*!!! Unfortunately everyone knows i never turn my phone off and that it's physically attached to me :D

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I save all my out going messages so i can check in the morning and make sure i didn't send anything silly to people :D


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Or as my old mum says....."You never know what's hanging till it drops"
(love that)



Was or is she Cornish by any chance?


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Came home today to a massive e-mail from her. She's right to be angry, I am a coward and I was a terrible boyfriend. But it seems she's intent on exposing me as a dangersous psychopath. How to I rebut that without looking like I'm only trying to save face? I don't feel I really have the right to say anything back to her.


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ARE you a psychopath???? :D Or is it just that she's foaming 'cos you dumped her and she doesn't feel that it was done 'properly', ie she didn't have the chance to say what she thought??

From what I can gather you told her nicely then went off for a few days...sounds ok.

My advice would be ignore, ignore, ignore - and disable ANY answering services on your mobile / land line for a few days, the inconvenience will be worth the inevitable vitriolic high volume messages that will surely follow.


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I think I agree that you should ignore her now. You've ended the relationship, she's angry and hitting back and best to completely walk away from it.

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She's right to be angry. I feel like such a shithead.


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Angry - Yes, but she'll get over it quicker if you don't reply.

If you ignore her then she'll blow herself out and get fed up of trying to hurt you like you've hurt her. She'll realise that tho it hurt at the time it was for the best.

If you do reply she'll end up getting more and more cross at you and work herself up and still be involved in it all rather than moving on.

This is what i know from my own experiance, i could be entirely wrong in this case. However I agree that ignoring her is the best way forward either way.

Stick to it. You'll get there :D

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I feel like such a shithead.


Don't bother beating yourself up Alan....you guys are over......move on......
All the best.


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Came home today to a massive e-mail from her. She's right to be angry, I am a coward and I was a terrible boyfriend. But it seems she's intent on exposing me as a dangersous psychopath. How to I rebut that without looking like I'm only trying to save face? I don't feel I really have the right to say anything back to her.



we all say really nasty things when we feel rejected or angry. I agree with everyone here that now that you v'e made the decision and carried out the act of cutting her loose, all you can really do now is move on and encouarge her to move on too.

Try not to open any more emails, letters, texts etc! Am sure she aint feeling great about sending you aggressive messages either.

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Just when i'm on the mend, it all blows up again.


Fuckin hell.


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Keep ignoring!


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Sometimes it takes awhile for the message to get through. Stick with it. You can do it :)

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The 'delete' key is a wonderful invention.....

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